Criteria for What Makes a Town Preppy
What are the attributes that make for a preppy town? My list of criteria, in no particular order, include:
Architecture and historic preservation;
A proper town green;
Level of civic participation (for both local businesses as well as charitable organizations);
Private clubs;
Private schools;
Safety;
European motor specialists;
The percentage of land devoted to walking trails and preserved open space compared to playing fields;
Congregational churches;
Commuter train service;
More station wagons than SUVs;
More organic farms than high end restaurants;
The percentage of houses that never go up for sale;
The percentage of people whom you wouldn't know if they were very well off or living in genteel poverty;
The percentage of locally owned shops versus chains;
Quality of harbors and/or miles of coastline;
The number of well-bred dogs being walked;
Egalitarian spirit;
Services for seniors;
Percentage of people wearing some variation of The Uniform;
My List of New England Preppy Towns:
Connecticut
Darien
Guilford
Guilford -Sachem's Head
Easton
Essex
Fairfield - Greenfield Hill
Fairfield - Mill River
Farmington
Fenwick
Green's Farms
Kent
Lakeville
Lyme
Madison
Mystic - Mason's Island
New Canaan
Nonquitt
Old Greenwich
Old Lyme
Redding
Rowayton
Roxbury
Salisbury
Sharon
Southport
Stonington Borough
Suffield Village
Washington
West Cornwall
Weston
Wilton
Woodbury
Maine
Camden
Cape Elizabeth
Castine
Christmas Cove
Kennebunk
Kennebunkport
Kittery
Northeast Harbor
Prouts Neck
Rockport
Seal Cove
Yarmouth
York Harbor
Massachusetts
Andover
Beverly Farms
Chatham
Chestnut Hill
Cohasset
Concord
Cuttyhunk Island
Deerfield
Dover
Duxbury
Dunstable
Edgartown
Groton
Hamilton
Hingham
Manchester/ Manchester-By-The-Sea=
Marblehead
Marion
Nantucket
Newburyport
Orleans
Rockport
Salem/ McIntire District
South Dartmouth/ Padanaram
South Hadley
Wellesley
Wellfleet
Wenham
Westport/ Old Hill
Weston
Wianno/Osterville
Woods Hole
New Hampshire
Center Harbor
Exeter
Francestown
Gilmanton
Hancock
Hanover
Hopkinton
New London
Portsmouth
Rye
Wolfeboro
Rhode Island
Barrington
Bristol
Jamestown
Little Compton
Narragansett
Newport - Narragansett Bay
Watch Hill
Wickford
We've bought a couple of paintings from the Susan P Adam gallery in Castine. Well worth checking out. Next to that little restaurant at the corner of Main & Water Sts., if you know the town.
If you are ever in the area (and I don't know why you would be, it's in the middle of nowhere, although there is a ferry from Bar Harbor) you might drive through Winter Harbor. The golf course (nine holes; my 96-year-old father plays five every day with his cronies before heading out to breakfast) is breathtaking -- overlooks the little inlet there. Moored outside the yacht club, each painted in a different color, are the Winter Harbor 21s, thought to be the oldest intact fleet of one-designs in the country. Take a loop around Grindstone Neck where there is some fine architecture (https://buildingsofnewengland.com/tag/grindstone-neck-winter-harbor/) and continue on your merry way.
Are there no preppy towns in Vermont? Middlebury, perhaps?
A few notes in Rhode Island: I would consider the town of East Greenwich preppy as well as the community of the East Side of Providence.